Mormon Dating

I almost feel like and alien here. I feel like I am the only girl who is not constantly thinking about dates and guys and going on dates and having a boy friend. I mean those things are all great but I really don't think it's healthy or sane to be always be thinking about that. There was a guy in church who when he introduced himself said that he was still trying to uphold his goal of going on at least one date a week. If a guy is going to take me out I want it to be because it's me not just because I'm the next girl on the list. I don't think that would make any girl feel good about herself. It's not that i'm against going on dates or anything I just think that there should be some thought behind it not just because we're Mormon and that's what we do.